Rant of the day: We weren't expecting this...
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
1141. 妞妞永别
生离死别是一种很难表达的感觉。哭也就成为了理所当然的自然反应。刚刚不久,dear的家宠,妞妞,突然的过世了。走得太突然,大家也都没有心理准备。在傍晚的时候,它就像往常一样跑来跑去。所以当我们发现它卧底不起时,我和dear都不敢相信。
在抚摸它的遗体时,虽然还有一点的余温,但已完全僵硬。没了心跳,没了气息……它就这样默默地离开了。
虽然我当下没哭,但心却是纠结着。很难过……真的很难过……我还希望它只是昏睡半冬眠状态,但一切都是自欺欺人。我们一直呼唤着,但妞妞仍然一动也不懂得躺在角落。
*心痛*
回家的路上,我再巴士里默默得落泪。反应是如此的自然,如此的不由自主。脑海里还一直播放着它一见到就扑上来的画面。我再也听不到它撒娇的声音。我再也无法轻拍它的额头。
妞妞,你一路好走。来世投胎做人。不要再做狗狗了。永别了……
Sunday, April 17, 2011
1140. buys
Rant of the day: Makan makan makan...
Been buying stuff recently but guess I will need them.
My laptop mouse decided to give way after serving me for coming 3 years. But seriously, this is the first time I see a mouse break this way and I didn't do much to it.
So I got a new one from PowerLogic and it's pretty nice. Love the DPI specs at that price. Plus, I like this new uni-retractable design. Wondering where's the USB cable?
It's found underneath. Turn it over.
Open the cover and there is the USB!
Pull out the cable till desired length and close the cover.
Turn it over. Nice~~~ Very portable right? Love it and it's white!!!
And besides this, bought ties for work as well. Have to wear them everyday so, need to get them ready. 3 for $30 at a push cart outside Suntec Carrefour. Not expensive and the designs are very attractive!
This is probably the weirdest buy for men... the male "corset"! Not exactly weird lah. It's actually a compression top design to compress the body mass during workouts for more effective build. If I'm not wrong, quite a few sports brands had already released theirs. I got these from Spanx at Tangs. Besides wearing it during workout, it can also be worn as under shirts for a better shape body.
But it's not cheap. $139 for 1. I got 2, 1 white and 1 black. Luckily I had requested for Tangs vouchers for my farewell to offset most of the price and I only paid $28. Haha... Got these mainly for wedding shoots and banquet. I have to look nice right?
Coming Saturday will be my first work on weekend. Hmmmmmmm...
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
1139. adapting
Rant of the day: Need to wear tie everyday...
I'm still attempting to adapt to the new environment but perhaps I haven't been a "newbie" for quite a while (4 good years in fact), felt pretty lost at times and not sure where to start and what to do. But I'm pretty sure I'll get the hang of the job real soon.
Missing out the peeps in old office but I'm sure they are doing fine without me around. Now I really need to adapt to this whole new working hours. But it's actually the traveling that kills. 1 hour!!! I must get use to this man...
Oh I need to say this... My new colleagues are friendly!!!
Friday, April 01, 2011
1138. 哭过就好?
Rant of the day: 很累了……都还没开始。
好一个愚人节……
梁文音又一首《哭过就好了》。但现实生活中,这是不切实际的。哭过就不会地震吗?哭过就不会有核反应?哭过难道灾民的生活就自然恢复?离我近一点的当然是我和dear的婚事。哭过,问题依然存在。
古人有一句话却是相当正确:竹门对竹门、木门对木门。
当“竹门”对上了“木门”,问题是接踵而来。有如海啸似的。一波又一波的滔滔巨狼一直往我们的身上涌上。而我们就像是漂浮的房屋,被冲来又冲去。
结婚并不是两个人的事,而是两家人的事。但是,最起码两方都必须搞清楚是谁嫁谁和谁娶谁。而决定全是该归谁掌握。
不是不要妥协。而是连基本的“尊重”和“守承诺”都搞不好,要如何谈呢?
最可怜的还是我的宝贝。被夹在中间。真的很想直接到Ah Ma家讲清楚。决定了的事,就不要说反话。口舌这么多,反而对婚事不吉利。什么正月半年的是,我家可是完全不信。生辰八字生肖几日都算好了,为什么要改?Because over-writing decisions made by parents is extremely disrespectful.
好在我妈很直接。为了不让我们烦恼,自己提出见家长来讲清楚。因为她始终是男方娶媳妇的权威。她的话最大。
奉劝跟我们一样“竹门+木门”的朋友在考虑结婚时,真的要有心理准备。因为在谈婚论嫁时,只是问题的开始。来日的问题可多着呢……
还有,外人请闭嘴!不要越帮越忙。
Thursday, March 31, 2011
1137. a trip to remember
Rant of the day:
I'm on leave for the past 2 weeks but honestly, way too lazy to update my blog. Seriously, there is nothing much to blog about. Beside swimming on almost every weekday afternoon and staying home to watch variety shows and movies, I've nothing much to write. If I stay home any longer without job, I might just transform to an otaku (宅男).
Anyway, my laptop was down last week and that gave me a brand new perception on Acer. No way I'm getting Acer now. Another brand on my blacklist after Dell.
Got a new laptop from Fujitsu and hopefully this laptop will serve me well. But the setting up of the iTunes and stuff was a chore. Gawd... But luckily got it up and running now.
And now, happily blogging with it and I so love it's keyboard and LED monitor. And, it's WHITE! Nice~~~
Had my birthday family dinner at Swissotel Merchant Court Ellenborough Market Cafe. It's seriously GOOD! Even though the price may be slightly on the high side but worth every cent. Just the fresh oysters, prawns and mini lobsters are enough to cover back the cost!
The oysters so fresh that it tasted sweet. Even dear, who don't eat fresh oysters, grabbed a few and simply couldn't stop praising them. Too bad. Forgot to take family photo.
And birthday cake is from Pine Garden's. Lychee Martini again but just can't stop having them. It's only took us a couple of days to gobble up the entire 1kg!
On my birthday yesterday, spent a wonderful day with dear at Universal Studio Singapore. Entire day well spent and by the time we head out to Vivocity for dinner, we were already fully drained. This trip is exceptionally important because the last time I went was when I'm wheelchair bounded. This time, I can cover the entire place on my own foot! And of course, with dear by my side. Last time, girlfriend. Now, fiancee. Haha... To the uncle in the following photo, kua simi? 抢镜头!

Took lotsa photos but not possible to put everything up here. Those had added me on Facebook, do check out my photo album. Just gonna post a few here.
Photos with mascots that we didn't take the last time. Cute...
Battlestar Galactica! I took both Human and Cylon. Very happy that dear accompanied me to one of them but she gave up subsequently. Guess these rides are way too scary for her. And that's also why I'm very very touched when she insisted to accompany for 1 of them.
In my opinion, Human is way too scary! Though there were no cock screw turns but the speed (90km/h) and the almost 90 degree drop can seriously make you pee your pants! At one point of time during the steepest drop, we can literally feel ourselves lifting out from our seats and only to be stopped by the safety catch! And this is the one that dear took with me. After the ride, both our heads were spinning like crazy. We had to sit down and REST!
As for the Cylon, it's also pretty scary but not as bad as Human. This ride emphasizes on the spins and upside-down cock screw turns. When the speed is so fast, seriously you wouldn't feel much on the upside-down. What's the real scary part is the seats are "hanging" and not the traditional seated type. So our legs are dangling outside!
This had gotta be one of the World's best roller-coaster rides ever!
Besides this, we managed to catch some other features and rides that we didn't get to do the last time. Watched Monster Rock performance and seriously, it's 2 thumbs up! Damn good! World-class performance. Love their singing and dancing.
We took the wet ride too at Jurassic Park. Skipping this the last time 'cause the queue was crazy. This ride will surely make you REALLY wet! Bring spare clothes...
The special effects from Steven Spielberg was damn cool! But next time, stand on the 1st row. Can't really feel the typhoon from the last row.
Caught a few street performances. Honestly, these are what attracts the visitors and make them continue to stay "high" after a hot and long day. Applause for the performers who need to sing and dance under the hot sun.
I wanna go back again lah! Make a point to visit there every year with dear and I sure hope this can continue even after we have children! Haha... Family day outing mah. Things that all of us should do to stay bonded.
A tip to all who wanna visit Universal Studio Singapore. Go on a weekday. Avoid the following days:
1. Public holidays
2. School holidays
3. Weekends
Well unless you are prepared to queue like 1hr for 1 ride. Else, a weekday please and does not crash with (1) to (3). The longest ride we waited yesterday was only 20min! Shortest? 5min and that's the Battlestar Galactica!
Dinner last night was settled at Marche Vivocity. Always loving their seafood paella. Though the dinner was short but all I need is for dear to spend quality time with me.
My brother and his girlfriend (Kelly) also really sweet. Knowing that I'm a serious sucker for gorgeous cuff links, they got me a pair from Massimo Dutti! Wah! Love lah~~~
But now, I need to buy more shirts that require cuff links. I've got sooooooo many cuff links but only 2 shirts for them. Right... Nice one Eric... So perhaps it's a sign for shopping... AGAIN! Haha...
Friday, March 11, 2011
1136. moving on
Rant of the day: 落幕时总是百感交集的……
I'm finally moving on.
There's an opportunity.
And I needed it badly.
They made an offer.
I cannot resist.
I grabbed the chance.
A job closer to what I studied.
A job closer to what I had planned for myself.
A job that may not be easy.
But definitely a job that I really really wanted to try.
And do it well...
So, I think I finally took that deep breath.
Took the resignation form.
Signed it.
Superiors understand my directions in life.
They fully supported the idea.
I'm glad they do.
And here I go... Serving my notice period.
New challenges await me in 1 month time.
I am ready.
Sunday, March 06, 2011
1135. 五周年了
Rant of the day: Having a huge bruise at my left calf after the massage. Ouch!
五年了!五年了!我们在一起有五年了!时间过得太快了。怎么好象才一转眼而已?感觉就好像我们才刚刚开始扒拖似的……还是那么热烈的爱着……
可是真的太忙了。也没什么特别的计划。但是宝贝有贴心的安排全身按摩的配套,让我从头到脚都能放松。她也非常了解现在是我的部门最最忙的时候。所以才特别想出这个点子。I need this massage!按摩前,先泡个jacuzzi吧!爽啊!
不用问。不用怀疑。在jacuzzi里的照片,是真的全裸。没有人会穿东西下私人的jacuzzi好不好!好在泡沫非常之多!哈哈!
晚餐当然不可少。新加坡的Outback的确是高档!好吃到~~~
吃太饱了,就到金沙走走。晚上的金沙真的很美。第一次到了里面的购物区。两个字--高档!
这次的周年纪念日,唯一的不完美是没有一起买couple的东西。就好像我们一起买的情人对戒一样。今年也很想一起买一样样的衣服但是……可能不完美也是一种完美吧……*叹*
不过我还是觉得情侣穿一样的东西很sweet啦。
Anyway,我爱你宝贝。我们还有非常多的五年要一起过。我们还有很多的纪念日要一起过。我们开始了第六个年头了哦!=)
Thursday, March 03, 2011
1134. neglecting
Rant of the day: I need to stop hating myself in the morning. So I should sleep till noon!
I've been neglecting my blog. Yes. Lazy. And honestly, I'm beginning to realise that there is really nothing interesting about me to blog. I'm basically just another guy down the street. I do what almost everyone does everyday!
Wake up.
Work.
Lunch.
Back to work.
Knock off.
Dinner.
Maybe exercise.
Facebook.
Sleep.
And the cycle repeats the next day... And the next next day... And the next next next day... And the...... You get what I mean lah. I'm so ROUTINE! Where's my hip hop classes? Where's my KTV sessions? Am I really getting too old for these? But I'm only 27! Ok... 28 after 30th March... =P
Anyway, for those who are really really interested about the what-not in my life, some quick photo updates. Taken on random mood...
Falling in love with Hoegarden (again). Kevin recommends Kronenbourg as a replacement at pubs or clubs if there is an absent of Hoegarden.
My dear can really cook! And she does it with high standards and always a variety! Can your dear cook? *smirk*
What I'm feeling now during this extremely busy period. I'm actually working till 10pm for 2 consecutive days! FML!!!
My new name in office... "Eric Lim Kopi"... Hahaha... "Lim Teh" or "Lim Horlick" also can.
Pre-birthday lunch treat by Cheng at Vines! This pork chop is insanely delicious! So tender that it literally melts in my mouth with the slightest chew! Naise~~~
Like I mentioned, quick updates. So ain't putting up all my photos taken recently. Brain pretty dead now and ain't thinking properly. It's gonna be another long long day at work tomorrow. It's living hell!!!
Sunday, February 13, 2011
1133. stuff from USA
Rant of the day: The weather is hot hot hot...
It's been 5 days since dear came back from USA and I'm finally not feeling the extreme boredom. Just look at the stuff she bought for us!
Disney lanyard for my brother and I. These are seriously expensive stuff. No cheaper than Coach there! My gawd... I got the black and my brother, the colourful design. Very long and require some time to loop the lanyard to make it shorter.


A C.O. Bigelow hair and body wash. Smell insanely good! Perfect for me as my current Arber hair and body wash is finishing soon.

Another Calvin Klein belt but this time, a leather belt for work. I am simply in love with this. Yes, I'm very much a CK fan! My briefcase. My belts. My underwear!

Dried assorted fruits. Very very delicious! It's seriously a non-stop snack. You will just keep on taking the next one.

Mochaccino mints. Cute stuff and waiting for the right chance to open it up. Prolly the perfect mints on long car rides. KL roadtrip again? Hahaha...

Tommy Hilfiger polo tees! Not 1 but 2 polos! Unfortunately, ang mohs are really huge size people. Even the S size is huge for me. So, mum will be trying to alter these 2 pieces for me! Yeah! Thanks mum!


Not forgetting my mother, dear also got her something. Coach pass holder and lanyard! Very nice!


And the pink version for brother's girlfriend. The colour is so girly!


And yes, the Coach there are seriously cheap in comparison to those we see here in Singapore. Not only this, Aldo there are also cheap like crap but as dear did not have enough time, we had nothing from there. Perhaps we should all go Las Vegas!
Oh dear. Now where should we head to for honeymoon? USA or Europe or Australia? Hmmmmmm...
Disney lanyard for my brother and I. These are seriously expensive stuff. No cheaper than Coach there! My gawd... I got the black and my brother, the colourful design. Very long and require some time to loop the lanyard to make it shorter.
A C.O. Bigelow hair and body wash. Smell insanely good! Perfect for me as my current Arber hair and body wash is finishing soon.
Another Calvin Klein belt but this time, a leather belt for work. I am simply in love with this. Yes, I'm very much a CK fan! My briefcase. My belts. My underwear!
Dried assorted fruits. Very very delicious! It's seriously a non-stop snack. You will just keep on taking the next one.
Mochaccino mints. Cute stuff and waiting for the right chance to open it up. Prolly the perfect mints on long car rides. KL roadtrip again? Hahaha...
Tommy Hilfiger polo tees! Not 1 but 2 polos! Unfortunately, ang mohs are really huge size people. Even the S size is huge for me. So, mum will be trying to alter these 2 pieces for me! Yeah! Thanks mum!
Not forgetting my mother, dear also got her something. Coach pass holder and lanyard! Very nice!
And the pink version for brother's girlfriend. The colour is so girly!
And yes, the Coach there are seriously cheap in comparison to those we see here in Singapore. Not only this, Aldo there are also cheap like crap but as dear did not have enough time, we had nothing from there. Perhaps we should all go Las Vegas!
Oh dear. Now where should we head to for honeymoon? USA or Europe or Australia? Hmmmmmm...
1132. 有口难开
Rant of the day: 年十一。再过几天,农历春节就要完了!
有很多事情是不吐不快。
不过,有些事情,是要吐但不能吐。只能默默的铭记在心里,自己承受。铭记的是以后,尽量远离这些人。
被长辈冠上莫须有的“罪行”,真的是哑巴吃黄连,有口难开。
被冤枉的感觉真的很难放得开。更何况冤枉你的人竟然是熟悉的长辈。
*叹*
Monday, February 07, 2011
1131. truncated message
Rant of the day: 2 more days...
Viber rang yesterday.
Dear was on the line.
Connection was bad.
I could barely hear her talking.
Sentences were truncated.
"Dear, I'm... Fres... Going... Eat... I.... Not safe... Lock seems..."
My heart sank.
Felt like crying.
Tears dwelling.
I can't heard her and I doubt she can hear me clearly too.
From the truncated words, I felt extremely worried.
Finally hear her voice after 3 days and yet the connectivity sucks big time.
But still, I managed to hear her voice...
*sigh*
Sunday, February 06, 2011
1130. family dinner
Rant of the day: I need more dancefloor!
Family dinner last night was enjoyable. At least we were having it at an extremely atast restaurant in Vivocity, Tong Lok Signatures! And I believe the dinner cost a bomb! Imagine for yu-sheng, they served with Alaskan Crab! And for sharkfin soup, it's 1 whole sharkfin per pax with a piece of black truffle on it!
Anyway, a photo for the elders.
And all the cousins! Jeffrey missing in action. Think he went to the toilet or something...
After dinner was clubbing with Thomas, his girlfriend and Kelvin. Went Shanghai Dolly and seriously, I'm so not going back for the second time. For the first time, the DJ talks in Chinese! Many times we heard “把你的双手举起来!”, meaning raised up your hands... -_-"
Totally anti-climax! Live band performances singing songs in my mum's era and I totally don't get the feel. Just barely 30min, we were feeling bored already. The only thing we like (in comparison) was the intermission period where the DJ plays and spin. Still, see above para... Anti-climax! If you are of certain age or like oldies and like Dragonfly, you prolly will love this place. For me, not really...
We should had went Arena instead. I'm more a hip hop RnB person... Haha...
But even though the night was spoilt by lousy club, we still had some fun. It's been a while since the cousins get together. It's like once a year thing. Haha...
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